While watching Zindagi LIve on CNN IBN i realised what life and can be. It was all about how 26/11 terrorist attack on mubai's posh hotels has changed life of so many people. Life is every changing cycle. Every minute life changes but we hardly realize that some day it can change so dramatically. Every now and then we fight with our near and dears. We cut off our relationship with them and even we wish they may get out of our life. But there comes a time like 26/11 when which tells us love everyone in your life as much as you can, you never know when they will be gone forever never to come back again.
When ever my there would be trouble in anyone's life with any relationship or even I had some problem with for a second I would get angry and would think i don't want to keep relationship with this person ever in my life. But after few minutes when that eupheria but die I would tell me and others Whatever type the person is atleast he/she is there...Today while watching that program I recalled my own sentences.
The tear in the eyes of owners of United shippers Mr. Parikh, who lost his only son and daughter in law made me realize that all those with whom I am presently unhappy, they are my near and dears, we may not be happy with each other today but atleast they are there and I have hope to make up with them, may be tomorrow. Thank you Mr. Parikh.
I would like to Thank mr. Parikh for other reasons. Mr. Parikh who is 77 year old, retired from his business, had to go back to his work to look after his two grand daugthers who are too young. In my life I was always worried about certain things. I had taken decision of thinking of marriage too late probably when I reached by early thirties. I was always worried that if I marry now, probably I would marry someone who is two three years older to me.. Always I would calculate, what if i have children by this age, what age I and my husband would be when they will be these many years... Will we be able to provide them financial, emotional and physical security. But after watching this episode I realized never ever think of future in the sense I was thinking...You never no when you will be gone or how long you will live. Mr. Parikh's son who was young is gone, while Mr. Parikh who is old is back to job. So I think GOD has created a very good system to take care of everything. You just have to flow with time rather than flowing against time. I hope from today onwards I will stop all this stupid questions to pop up in my mind and live life as it comes and enjoy every moment before this too goes away.
